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Domestic Violence

  • By Sensei Malcolm Bale
  • 11 Aug, 2015

Domestic Violence - Now is The Time to Speak

Lets start with the Government definition of domestic violence -

"Any incident of threatening behaviour, violence or abuse (psychological, physical, sexual, financial or emotional) between adults who are or have been intimate partners or family members, regardless of gender or sexuality."

Whatever form Domestic Violence takes, it is rarely a one-off, it should be seen as a pattern of abusive and controlling behaviour through which the abuser seeks power over a victim. Typically abuse the behaviour tends to gwt worse over time. The abuse can begin any time, even after many years of life together. Domestic Abuse may start, continue, or escalate after a couple have separated and may take place not only in the home but also in public places.

The Domestic Violence has a traumatic effect on those involved, including a partner's children who may see or hear incidents taking place.

At Ju Jits Rugby, we can help arm people with skills to help in a situation but the victim must seek help from an organisation that deals specifically with Domestic Violence. A long term resolution is critical.

Domestic Violence is a crime and needs to be reported to the Police.

There are also several organisations you can contact or help but here's a good place to start.

If you experiencing domestic violence or know of someone who is experiencing abuse and needs help and support.

24-hour National Domestic Violence Freephone Helpline

0808 2000 247

The Helpline can give support, help and information over the phone, wherever the caller might be in the country.

The Helpline is staffed 24 hours a day by fully trained female helpline support workers and volunteers. All calls are completely confidential. Translation facilities for callers whose first language is not English, and a service for callers who are deaf or hard of hearing are available.

It is run in partnership between Refuge and Womens Aid.

For further details go to:

http://www.nationaldomesticviolencehelpline.org.uk/

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Within the world of martial arts, the coach-student relationship holds immense transformative power. A martial arts coach is not just a teacher but a mentor, shaping students' lives far beyond the boundaries of the dojo. Through their unwavering support, guidance, and belief in their students' potential, coaches instill confidence, discipline, resilience, and values that become pillars of personal growth. The profound impact of a martial arts coach lies in the empowerment of students to become not only skilled martial artists but also individuals of character, resilience, and boundless potential.

Testimonials like this, it really underline the responsibility and benefits -

I am very happy to write a glowing 5-star review for my 4-year-old son's Ju-jitsu lessons that he has been attending for almost a year now. I cannot thank his instructor, Malcolm, enough for the incredible progress and development my son, Harry, has achieved under his guidance. Malcolm's skills as an instructor are unparalleled. He has an amazing rapport with the kids and a level of chemistry that is truly exceptional. From the very first class, Harry felt comfortable and motivated to learn, ensuring that he enjoyed every minute of the training.

I am very impressed at the substantial improvements I have witnessed in Harry's confidence, coordination, balance, and overall Ju-jitsu skills throughout his time with Malcolm. There is no doubt that Malcolm's teaching techniques and engaging approach played a significant role in Harry's growth and development. He knows how to push the children just the right amount, instilling a sense of discipline and commitment while keeping the lessons enjoyable and fun.

Malcolm's passion for Ju-jitsu is evident in every aspect of his teaching . He goes above and beyond in ensuring that each child receives personalised attention, adapting his teaching style to meet their individual needs. It is truly remarkable how he manages to strike the perfect balance between challenging the kids and cheering them on, fostering an environment that encourages learning and growth. As a parent, I couldn't ask for more from a Ju-jitsu instructor. Malcolm's dedication, patience, and ability to connect with the kids are truly admirable. His passion for the martial art shines through, making the lessons not only educational but also inspiring for my son.

I wholeheartedly recommend Malcolm's Ju-jitsu lessons for kids . Thank you, Malcolm, for your exceptional instruction and for helping my son flourish in his Ju-jitsu journey. We are genuinely grateful!

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